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Okay, so in my last forum post, I briefly apologized for uniting outside on Helm's Deep. I truly am sorry, if you didn't hear me mention in the past, i have depression and ADHD and really tend to loose control. This wasn't enough for Sauron, though. Now changing his banning reason to disrespecting him, which I only did after he banned me for a week by saying "You sir, are a terrible moderator."
That was my 100% honest opinion, which I forgot you cant have on the internet. I find this outrageous, now banned for 10 days. I want your opinion, if you're on my side, show it. Show that this is outrageous and tyranny.
Again, I truly am sorry, I did learn from this mistake, and I beg for your forgiveness here, I couldn't on the server or my last forum post. I will never be this stupid again and I just want to know that you all forgive me.
 
Tip for later on in your real life:

You can share your opinions on some people, only don't do it in public.
 
Okay, please back on topic, I want forgiveness and Sauron to see 10 days might be a bit harsh
 
LazeeKat said:
Okay, please back on topic, I want forgiveness and Sauron to see 10 days might be a bit harsh
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Personal I would have banned you for perhaps a day, just to calm you off, but Sauron probably thinks different about your actions, looking at the fact that he banned you for 10 days.
 
Sorry mate but I'm kind of on the side of Sauron here. I found that while moderating my own server, I became very sensitive to even the smallest insult, that wouldn't have normally bothered me. I think it's because after all the hard work that I (and Sauron) put into our respective servers, being told that we as people are bad really hits home. Especially since Sauron has had people doubting him since he became a mod, he probably as zero tolerance for this kind of thing any more. Saying that it is: 'Tyranny' and 'outrageous' is also very harsh. He simply doesn't want to be abused and denounced by the players on the server he has worked so hard on to improve. What if you were in his position?

On the other hand, the 10 day ban is a little harsh, especially for a one of incident like this. Lazee, you've always been a law abiding citizen of Empire War, and we all know how anger can get to us sometimes. If I was Sauron, I would forgive you and shorten the ban at this point, seen as it is so obvious you regret your decision, and the fact that you apologised so wholeheartedly.

To quote Tywin Lannister: "When your enemies defy you, you must serve them steel and fire. When they go to their knees, however, you must help them back to their feet. Elsewise no man will ever bend the knee to you.
 
Kingjoseph1st said:
Sorry mate but I'm kind of on the side of Sauron here. I found that while moderating my own server, I became very sensitive to even the smallest insult, that wouldn't have normally bothered me. I think it's because after all the hard work that I (and Sauron) put into our respective servers, being told that we as people are bad really hits home. Especially since Sauron has had people doubting him since he became a mod, he probably as zero tolerance for this kind of thing any more. Saying that it is: 'Tyranny' and 'outrageous' is also very harsh. He simply doesn't want to be abused and denounced by the players on the server he has worked so hard on to improve. What if you were in his position?

On the other hand, the 10 day ban is a little harsh, especially for a one of incident like this. Lazee, you've always been a law abiding citizen of Empire War, and we all know how anger can get to us sometimes. If I was Sauron, I would forgive you and shorten the ban at this point, seen as it is so obvious you regret your decision, and the fact that you apologised so wholeheartedly.

To quote Tywin Lannister: "When your enemies defy you, you must serve them steel and fire. When they go to their knees, however, you must help them back to their feet. Elsewise no man will ever bend the knee to you.
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At the last part, I would execute them in secret.
 
DimitriP_13421 said:
[quote user_id="3559998" avatar="https://cravatar.eu/helmavatar/Kingjoseph1st/74.png" name="Kingjoseph1st"]Sorry mate but I'm kind of on the side of Sauron here. I found that while moderating my own server, I became very sensitive to even the smallest insult, that wouldn't have normally bothered me. I think it's because after all the hard work that I (and Sauron) put into our respective servers, being told that we as people are bad really hits home. Especially since Sauron has had people doubting him since he became a mod, he probably as zero tolerance for this kind of thing any more. Saying that it is: 'Tyranny' and 'outrageous' is also very harsh. He simply doesn't want to be abused and denounced by the players on the server he has worked so hard on to improve. What if you were in his position?

On the other hand, the 10 day ban is a little harsh, especially for a one of incident like this. Lazee, you've always been a law abiding citizen of Empire War, and we all know how anger can get to us sometimes. If I was Sauron, I would forgive you and shorten the ban at this point, seen as it is so obvious you regret your decision, and the fact that you apologised so wholeheartedly.

To quote Tywin Lannister: "When your enemies defy you, you must serve them steel and fire. When they go to their knees, however, you must help them back to their feet. Elsewise no man will ever bend the knee to you.
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At the last part, I would execute them in secret.[/quote]

Bloody hell Dimitri, you just ruined the epic feeling you get from a GoT quote :s
 
Thank you, but the thing is, he changed his statment now by saing he banned me for disrespecting him in game, which I never remember doing, so I'm waiting for examples of what I said to offend him, the only thing that I said that could be disrepsectul is something like "Why is it that you're yelling at me for telling people to stop caps, but not yelling at people using caps?"
 
LazeeKat said:
Thank you, but the thing is, he changed his statment now by saing he banned me for disrespecting him in game, which I never remember doing, so I'm waiting for examples of what I said to offend him, the only thing that I said that could be disrepsectul is something like "Why is it that you're yelling at me for telling people to stop caps, but not yelling at people using caps?"
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Didn't you said earlier: ''Sir, you're a terrible moderator''
I believe that's a good example of disrespecting him in-game.
 
So Electric....

Did you know that controlling the account known as: 'Lord_Sauron' there is another human being?

And did you also know that human beings have feelings that differ from person to person?

Last year I suffered from large amounts of bullying and verbal abuse at school. The problem was dealt with, but it made me increasingly sensitive to small insults. I felt like every jibe at me was an assault on my personality, and my character.

We don't know much about Sauron, but I'm just assuming that he is a human being like me and you, who has been through hard times, or might even be going through hard times. Being told that he is a bad mod isn't going to help.

And Lazee, you admitted to saying: 'You sir are a terrible moderator.' That sounds pretty disrespectful to me.

I totally sympathise with Sauron and I am starting to loose sympathy with Lazee as he continues to play the victim, without thinking about what he actually did to provoke Sauron.
 
I do. Again, I dont feel Im saying it enough. Im sorry. Im sorry. I am sorry. Clearly you know what it's like, being another victim of bullying how it is to get angered, and that is what happened. Once I was muted for something I didnt understand (at the time) I went into that state of blind rage. A thousand times over, I am sorry. I am in therapy and I've been working on stress relief and thinking situations out before I can get overupset about them, which was what happened here, an overreaction to a small punishment I deserved.
 
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