Be yourself and try to stay positive through the incredibly depressing and gross things in life, try to have the person you like be someone who makes you happy and cheers you up
I don't have one, but some advice: be courteous, women don't like men who aren't, be respectful (on both sides) don't harass her, but don't let her act like some random slut, it's undignified for her. Don't cheat on her, loyalty is important, but don't be a puppy. Be honest to her, although white lies may be necessary sometimes. Try not to sugarcoat things but don't blatantly drop the bomb. (Don't be like me Magik, it doesn't work, it's just personality) Be kind to her, really look out for her, try to make her the best she can be, but DON'T put her on a pedastal. Be generous, don't penny pinch but don't just overspend on her, they get more and more demanding if you do. Don't mention her age or weight, if you do, I suggest hiding. In a nuclear fallout shelter. For about... 50,000,000 moons. Also, MOST IMPORTANTLY, BE HYGIENIC. Put on deoderant, comb your hair, wash it everyday. You ever seen the looks of disgust women give 'gross' men? Your girlfriend will dump you if you're gross. (well, maybe not be gals are wierd) Like I said before, I really don't know. These just seem like some common sense facts. (Also came from observing the strange, overdramatic gender (no offense to the non-overdramatic ladies)
I'm in a relationship and I don't fucking know. Nobody knows. People in relationships are just as clueless of what they're doing as people not in relationships. Or maybe that's just me.
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I think that you've just got to learn from it. Being in one can sure help you mature. Then you'll be better suited if you have another one.
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It can suck sometimes, but it can be beautiful as well. When I met her, I didn't like her at all. I wasn't attracted, but soon I was. It's really crazy to think how much your feelings for a person can change like that. What I can say to you Magi is, don't ignore the precious moments, don't kiss her whenever you feel like it. Do it when it's right.
Ye but suddenly she cheats on you with multiple men and your belief that you're aware of how woman relatively work turn upside down. So does your belief in trust, dignity and probably a few more things. Chaos ensues basically. Won't this simply throw you into doubt as you'll begin speculating on your possibly wrong notions and social attitudes?
For me it's a bunch of cuddling, intimacy, laughing, together we evolve ideas and you immediately have a second mind to aid you in elaborate any subject (Except perhaps my advanced studies of computer graphics). We support each other economically, emotionally (mostly hers) and it's just fucking amazing. I suppose cons would be that I must spend a lot of my time actually contriving this relationship, time I logically should spend on studies. However this doesn't matter so much as I ain't a machine and cannot maintain a to long study period. I have less free will as my actions actually matter now, somebody else is effected by what I do. Tho this has always been the case, you're a node in a network of contacts and your actions have always mattered to the mentality of others. I guess it's just very intensified to one specific individual now. It's tempting to retain only positive memories of the single life, this is likely just an illusion as you were probably more miserable single than harsh times in the relationship.