my eastern stinkpot musk turtle(the female) has missing fingers, she keeps getting bullied by the smaller male she's with, they've been raised together from hatchings, a few months ago the female layed an egg but we did not retrieve it from her aquatic habitat early enough and so it never ended up hatching, even when removed and placed in incubation, anyone know if i should take her to the vet or not? or maybe i should separate the two turtles who have lived with each other for their entire lives?