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I'm suffering from social anxiety thanks to the way I grew up. Not that I am socially awkward. It's that I get really nervous in new situations. My brother just came in my room 30 minutes ago saying he'd break my neck if I didn't eat the salad that my mum makes for dinner. My sister is a hateful hypocritic feminist. She always states how she's smarter than me and acts like she's a better person than anyone. 2-3 weeks ago my dad threw a shoe at my sisters face because she disagreed about something. I stood up in her defence, telling him to behave normal. He then threathend to hit me too, saying he'd bash our heads against the wall and throw us down from the stairs. This man is fucking crazy and deserves to be in jail. If there's one thing I want then it's being seperated from this crazy family.

I send this yesterday to one of my friends: Couple weeks ago I've been having some issues. I have never told you that my parents once divorced for 2-3 years when I was like 10. I had to go live with this random women my dad used to sleep with which was really awful because I saw my mum cry daily. My dad wanted to see us too so we had to switch houses from time to time. 3 years later, I don't know what actually happend but after a lot of talking where I didn't hear what actually happend, they got back. My dad just made promises to us to make us happy and all that. He never really.. apologised. Ofc all the things he did hit my feelings too you know. But anyway, I tried to forget it. It was in the past but latetly these past few months my dad has been a really big dick to me. He harassed me, made dead threaths and my mum doesn't even care. He threw a shoe at my sisters face and when I stood up for her, he threathend to hit me too.

When I was a child I was never awarded. Not for anything. Never received any love. Never received any gifts that I liked for my birthdays. Never did anything stupid to myself for attention. Always kept my mouth shut and cry myself to sleep when no one was watching. Never had someone I could trust. Never had I opened my mouth.

Go to the police and tell them your problems man, this is serious if you parents are threatening to kill you. Maybe next time you should record them saying it somehow for some evidence. You could also try calling lifeline.

Holy fucking shit...

Adam I'm always available on skype if you need me

Hitting their childeren, threatning their children? Yo, this is some deep shit right here. Why haven't you told the police, or even Children's Houses about this? Anyways, I don't want to be an annoying lil bitch about this but, try to contact Children's Houses on the Internet or so. If your parents really are guilty of doing this, they will be taken away their children from themselves. I know this, because of my dad working for Children's Houses (Not going to say any names) and you should try it. It may work, or horribly go wrong. Good luck!

F**k jesus christ police's a must here.

But not suicide. Suicide's just...that.

wow stop, think and get help. death is not an option, if you want to feel better just cry in your room alone, it helps or go and talk with anyone you think will listen to you. ask old person (grandpa, ect') or just tell the police under anonymous name (dont know if you have public phones there in the netherlands) and always remember that death is never option. if you will suicide many ppl will suffer till thier death. your perents, your brothers, sisters, your whole family, everyone that know you, and even those who hate you because no one hate you enogh to wnat you dead. dont kys

Easily said. I recently contacted therapy and hopefully they can help me

you really need to find new family try to put hidden camera somewhere or just go to the lawer furom of your contry and ask for help

if you need help i can get you lawer to contact with

I'm not gonna tell you "sorry" (I have nothing to do with your problems), but I gonna say that, well, however bad it may seem, it's unlikely that it'll last for very much longer. Endure through these next few years, and you will achieve freedom. Hopefully. I mean there's no way to know for sure, but given what I know it appears likely. So yeah, resist. I don't pity you. I admire you for what you've gone through.

Zoom. Talk to me if you need it, because this is already out of hand...

if you lived in the US it would be easy. CPS would take you away from your parents.

After reading all this, it’s far more apparent why you have been depressed. Based on how you have been describing the situation here, your father seems very much like the kind of man you’d find in a strict home with domestic abuse. Even though not necessarily a bad man, he sounds ill-tempered, irresponsible and reckless – not exactly the kind of parent one would dream of having.

It isn't always that easy

Always be humble and kind, no Matter the circumstances. Always be humble and kind

I feel bad for you